But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto today's topic: the best sex positions for FFM threesomes.

After all, when three people are involved, there are a lot of limbs, holes, and mouths to position. As for the emotional side of things—well, just make sure you communicate about it before and after. Everyone gets a fine-ass view if you arrange yourselves thusly: M enters you from behind, your upper leg draped back and over their hips. The other F lies on their back so their V is within kissing distance from your mouth.

Probably too transparent. How do you initiate a threesome? How do you transition into one? And once you get there, how do you, well, have one— which threesome sex positions can you rely on for a good time?

Probably too transparent. How do you initiate a threesome? How do you transition into one? And once you get there, how do you, well, have one— which threesome sex positions can you rely on for a good time? You see them in movies and on TV, you read about them in books, and honestly, even without any exposure to them at all, you could probably figure them out.