We have only slept together twice in the past year. How can I love and be in a relationship with someone I no longer desire? You have asked a question to which there is no satisfactory answer — unless you decide to prioritise all other aspects of your relationship over sexuality. Trying so hard to reconcile the irreconcilable is making you very sad - and no wonder; such a gulf between thoughts and feelings commonly pitches a person into depression. This problem is not going to get better by itself, so it must be addressed urgently and directly. You need to have a very focused conversation with your girlfriend, in which you must share your true feelings without apportioning blame.
I barely have the desire to have sex with my girlfriend – but desperately wish I did
How to Make Your Girlfriend Want to Have Sex With You
To create this article, people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed 11,, times. Learn more You have reached that point in your relationship where you want to take it to the next level. Some people think that sex is no big deal, but others see it as something they only want to share with an extra-special person. Although you never want to force your girlfriend to have sex with you, you can always soothe some of her fears and reassure her that you really are a person she can fully trust.
I Stopped Wanting Sex With My Girlfriend the Moment She Moved In With Me
She knows how to get herself off. Because if she already knows what she likes, it's that much easier for you to know what she likes, so you don't feel like you're playing "guess how to make me come" at a sex carnival. Also, if she doesn't know how to get herself off, you need to help her immediately because that's not OK. She feels comfortable telling you what she does and doesn't want. A lot of this could be attributed to how comfortable she feels sharing things with you because she knows you won't judge her or make her feel bad for anything, but it also means she's someone who is able to speak her mind and verbalize her needs, so she's basically a badass superhero chick because that shit is hard.
Subscriber Account active since. I'm 20 years old, and I have a girlfriend who's a virgin. When we make out, I try to do my best not to put pressure on her to give me oral sex or have penetrative sex, but we've been together for two years, and nothing sexual has happened yet.